What to wear (Josh's Guide to Surviving your Photoshoot)

One of the first questions I hear before a session is, “What should we wear?”

Here’s the truth: the most important thing you can wear is whatever makes you feel comfortable and happy. If you’re fidgeting, tugging at your clothes, or not feeling like yourself, it’s going to show in your photos. Confidence and comfort always come first.

That said, I do have a few tips and ideas to help guide you when planning your outfits.

Seasons

When it comes to picking outfits for your photoshoot, it helps to think about the seasons. Consider them in two big groups:

Fall and Winter

For the cooler months, I always think earthy and grounded. Flannels, layers, cozy textures, and warm tones work beautifully. Browns, creams, deep greens, burnt oranges. These colors bring a timeless, natural look that feels right at home in the season.

Spring and Summer

When it warms up, I lean toward light and bright. Think about clothes that feel airy and fresh, like soft pastels, light denim, whites, or flowy dresses. The goal is simple: wear something that feels effortless, like the breeze running through your hair.

Dress the Parents First

A little trick I picked up along the way, start with the parents. Since you naturally take up more space in the photos, your outfits will anchor the look of the session. Once you’ve chosen something that feels good and fits your vibe, build the kids’ outfits around that palette. It keeps things cohesive without being overly matchy.

Don’t Forget the Shoes

Shoes are easy to overlook,

but they can make a difference. I recommend natural materials like leather, suede, or simple earthy tones that don’t pull attention away from your connection in the photo. Loud patterns, neon sneakers, or distracting colors tend to take away from the overall feel.

A Few Final Thoughts

At the end of the day, this is your session. Dress up a little if it feels fun, try something new if you’re in the mood, but most of all, be genuine. The outfits should feel like you. When you’re comfortable and present, that’s when the real magic happens.